{"id":1596,"date":"2020-03-08T14:21:44","date_gmt":"2020-03-08T14:21:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.manchester.ac.uk\/student-wellbeing-champions\/?p=1596"},"modified":"2020-04-27T14:22:26","modified_gmt":"2020-04-27T13:22:26","slug":"giving-a-way-of-life-ahmed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.manchester.ac.uk\/student-wellbeing-champions\/2020\/03\/08\/giving-a-way-of-life-ahmed\/","title":{"rendered":"Giving: A way of life"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>Giving: A way of life<\/h1>\n<p>University life is filled with new experiences and \u2018first-time independence\u2019 and students are often left overwhelmed. Assignments, emails, schedules, housekeeping, cooking, laundry\u2026 the list goes on. If the phrase \u201cI have so much do that I can\u2019t do anything\u201d resonates with you, then you are one of many overwhelmed students. The best way I&#8217;ve found to deal with this is by prioritising my wellbeing. The technique I use for improving my wellbeing is through\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.studentsupport.manchester.ac.uk\/taking-care\/wellbeing\/give\/\">giving<\/a>. Not just by donating to charity, but by spending my time, effort, and energy to give back to myself and the community around me.<\/p>\n<h2>The ripple effect of giving<\/h2>\n<p>The hustle and bustle of our busy lives means that the smallest act of giving can have a ripple effect. Talking to a friend who is feeling low for five minutes, for example, can brighten their day making them feel appreciated and loved. Community-wide opportunities are also provided by the university regularly. The Volunteer Hub organises events for students like helping the homeless, painting houses for the less fortunate and teaching English to refugees.<\/p>\n<p>Through these events, students can find an outlet for their energy that benefits others and helps them to achieve their full potential, while also <a href=\"http:\/\/www.studentsupport.manchester.ac.uk\/taking-care\/wellbeing\/connect\/\">connecting<\/a> with like-minded people. By volunteering, students are able to better understand the current issues and notice the actions needed to influence change. When this is transferred to their careers \u2013 taking into account the university\u2019s diversity of fields and students \u2013 students can help to create a better tomorrow for future generations. Through the power of giving back, one can truly improve their mental wellbeing.<\/p>\n<h2>Giving back to yourself<\/h2>\n<p>In the course of giving back, one must remember themselves. When stuck in a daily routine of studying, working, writing a dissertation, cooking, cleaning, and sleeping. When even nights out sometimes feel like they\u2019re a burden, we must take care of ourselves. The solution for many is prioritising an hour of \u2018me-time\u2019 each day. Whether it&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.studentsupport.manchester.ac.uk\/taking-care\/wellbeing\/beactive\/\">being active<\/a> by going to the gym, watching a WWII Netflix documentary, doing yoga before exams, or just chilling at home listening to your favourite Frank Sinatra songs (all examples from people I know). One must always focus on keeping their own wellbeing in check.<\/p>\n<p>Each person has their own coping mechanisms and sources of joy, so staying connected to one\u2019s true self is necessary to stay well. I&#8217;d like to end with this message: one can never stay afloat, alone and isolated. The support available to every one of us from our friends, family, university, and local community, is endless. All you need to do is reach out.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Written by Wellbeing Champion, Ahmed Refaie<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Giving: A way of life University life is filled with new experiences and \u2018first-time independence\u2019 and students are often left overwhelmed. Assignments, emails, schedules, housekeeping, cooking, laundry\u2026 the list goes on. If the phrase \u201cI have so much do that I can\u2019t do anything\u201d resonates with you, then you are one of many overwhelmed students. 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